Surely, there have been times when we used intuition to choose a "fate" and then things didn't go as we hoped. We think our intuition was wrong and can't be trusted at all...

But intuition isn’t about right or wrong—it reflects the truth.

The problem lies in how we judge. If the result aligns with our expectations, we call it "right"; if not, we label it "wrong." Sometimes, even when we feel hesitant, we still choose that person or invest in that endeavor, only to lose money, be betrayed, or feel heartbreak.

Perhaps it's because we have debts to settle—emotional debts, financial debts—that must be addressed at that specific time. Yet, instead of understanding this, we blame ourselves for being foolish, weak, or naive.

These days, fateful encounters seem to appear more frequently. The processes of cause and effect are accelerating. Illnesses surface more often, financial and work planning issues pile up, and emotional chaos spins us out of control.

We often describe "fate" as something beautiful—care, love, affection—without realizing it originates from the feelings and emotions we've cultivated in many lifetimes.

As humans, we are attached to physical sensations. We cherish pleasant feelings and reject unpleasant ones. In one lifetime, countless people create positive impressions on us through small gestures, care, and thoughtfulness. At the same time, others leave us with negative impressions.

Whether we like or dislike someone, these deep-rooted emotions rise to the surface when we meet again, making it hard to control our minds. We nurture these feelings—missing someone, for example—and when we meet again in this lifetime, even after establishing a family, we continue to cultivate those emotions.

This explains why people cherish their first love so deeply. It’s a memory of purity, a beautiful impression that comforts us during emotional hardships in the present. These feelings, however, are simply emotions tied to a past moment, nurtured over time. Who’s to say the person from the past is truly as wonderful as we remember?

During periods of emotional distress, we tend to recall the good feelings someone gave us. The worse the current emotions, the more we rely on those memories for healing. Over time, these feelings grow into desires, leading to suffering when our wishes remain unfulfilled.

Regardless of whether fate is good or bad, its emotions are stored within our energy structure. When they resurface, we often feel overwhelmed. Meeting past fates in this life—whether positive or negative—is hard to resist because most of us lack strong mental discipline.

Moreover, these emotions are layered and deeply rooted, not just from one lifetime but many. Even those who are highly rational can find themselves emotionally overwhelmed when faced with deeply connected fates.

So, why do people say "the right person at the wrong time"?

The timing is never wrong. Small debts are settled first, larger ones later. When we nurture emotions, we pay for them with emotions—suffering, longing, self-blame. The stronger the attachment, the greater the pain.

Without a steady mind, we’re easily swayed by pleasant emotions, drawn to new affections and pleasures. Unable to endure the boredom or fatigue of current fates, we entangle ourselves with new ones, repeating cycles across countless lifetimes.

Those with better awareness and energy may feel deeply torn between morality and responsibility. They wish to stay committed to current fates but find it exhausting, painful, and full of wounds.

But how could they abandon their fates? Clearly, this is their lesson! They live in torment, viewing life as a place to repay debts to the world.

People lament not achieving the feelings they desire, but even when they do, how many are truly happy? Or do they wish for something else? Many love stories, even first loves that culminate in marriage, end abruptly in later years. After nurturing so much positivity, how can one endure such a sudden loss?

Why is it so hard to overcome?

To transcend, one must develop strong mental discipline and understand that emotions are just emotions. Every role we play in life reflects our current reality. To learn unconditional love, to open the heart chakra, we must love all beings in their present state without attachment.

When wisdom arises, we recognize the impermanence of emotions. Whether love or hate, each is a valuable lesson.

The mind may be impure, emotions may fluctuate—love today, hate tomorrow, anger now, affection later. Intuition shows us who we need in our lives to learn our lessons. Roles align with the present life, not driven by good feelings or desires.

Many people, despite losing feelings, cannot bring themselves to divorce due to lingering doubts or hesitation. Even when seeking advice from teachers, they’re often told to endure—this is fate, and it will end when it’s resolved.

Beyond endurance, we must calmly observe our feelings. Balance of mind is crucial because any added emotion, love or hate, only nurtures another seed within us.

Live true to your energy and current role in this life. While we may have been spouses, parents, or siblings in past lives, we must now fulfill our roles in this one.

Don’t force, don’t obsess, don’t fuel illusions.

In stillness and peace, intuition will guide you to the most accurate actions. Chasing emotions leads to mental chaos; greater adversity brings harder lessons.

No matter where we practice or which realm we aspire to, developing a focused mind is profoundly challenging.

We are learning how to swim through the sea of suffering; if we can't swim through, we'll keep diving and drowning in the pain of our own body and mind!

Do your best—think positively.
Everything will fall into place.

Do your part—leave the rest to destiny!
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