Many tragedies have occurred just because a fortune teller declared "incompatible zodiac signs." A truly conscientious guide would not use age to scare people or claim that they shouldn't get married.

To be serious and accurate, at the very least, one must consider all four elements of physical form: year, month, day, and hour to determine the Palace (Cung), Heavenly Stem (Can), and Earthly Branch (Chi), as well as the energy of the couple’s names. Simply looking at zodiac compatibility based only on the Earthly Branch of the birth year is insufficient.

Moreover, there are many different factors at play. Every year, millions of people are born—if two zodiac signs are considered incompatible, does that mean millions of people cannot marry? Each person has their own destiny, unique challenges, and soul lessons to meet the right connections and experience life’s great lessons, such as marriage.

Regardless of how well-matched two people are, there will always be ups and downs. In Yang, there is always Yin. The key is whether they can recognize life’s lessons and work together to solve problems when they arise.

Once you choose to share your journey with someone, values and perspectives (inner strength) and attitudes toward each other (vital energy) are crucial. That’s why one should not place too much emphasis on zodiac compatibility in marriage.

External circumstances are just external factors—they may be favorable or difficult. However, how a person perceives others, their circumstances, and their problems will ultimately determine their happiness (inner strength). Inner strength is something that people cultivate over many lifetimes.

To heal an issue, one must address the root cause, not just the symptoms. Life is a journey, and to achieve meaningful results, one must respect the value of that journey. There are no shortcuts—"Haste makes waste." Learn to manage what is unfavorable, as you are the one who directs your own life. This is also the process of strengthening your inner power.

That is why inner strength accounts for 80% of what determines a person's happiness!

— Hà Bích Thủy