She needs to learn the lesson of nurturing. At times, she feels overwhelmed and burdened with too much responsibility. This leads to stress over making money and frustration when things don’t go as planned. She often feels like the weight of the world is on her shoulders.

Her energy is like the earth—everything naturally falls onto her. The more she tries to control and calculate, the more problems arise.

She needs to cultivate patience to weather the storms in her life. She shouldn’t place expectations on her husband to meet all her needs. Part of the issue stems from her tendency to shelter and protect, which leads her to take on all the responsibilities in the family. She stresses over finances and struggles with raising the kids alone.

Her biggest challenge comes from high expectations of herself. She takes on too much, but her capacity to handle everything is limited. On the positive side, she is willing to sacrifice for her family. However, when she prioritizes others’ needs over her own to an extreme, she becomes exhausted in her relationships. By doing everything herself, her husband—and even her children—become passive.

She is unclear about dividing responsibilities or setting family plans. She tends to procrastinate until things become overwhelming, leading to stress and exhaustion. Her emotional and sentimental nature makes her more prone to anxiety and overthinking minor details.

If things don’t go as planned, she feels mentally scattered. Over-reliance from family members diminishes their roles and contributions. For the family dynamic to work, she must let her husband and children play active parts in shaping their relationships.

She fears deviating from the norm and avoids change or risks. Her reluctance to try new approaches or share decision-making adds to her stress over finances and parenting.

Sharing responsibilities within the family is essential. Her preference for harmony prevents her from taking bold actions. This imbalance in responsibilities drains her energy, as small unresolved issues pile up over time and turn into major conflicts.

Carrying too much for too long can easily lead to depression. Life’s challenges do help her grow stronger, but she also needs to learn to live naturally, without unrealistic expectations. Human capacity has limits—the more she tries to control everything, the more exhausted she becomes.

This energy is deeply tied to education and growth. Being open to life lessons will help her find a smoother path. The most important lesson is to be willing to experience and go with the flow. Without this, she will always feel tense from taking on too much.

It’s important to reflect on each phase of life and draw lessons. For example, after facing a problem, ask: “What have I learned from this?” Earth-like energy absorbs everything—there’s no predicting what will fall onto the ground. Understanding this natural flow and accepting it, rather than trying to change it, is key.

The more she relaxes and aligns with the natural flow, the easier it is to adapt and transform. Otherwise, she will stay stuck, constantly asking herself “Why?” By bearing too much responsibility, she also stifles others’ growth.

Though she is forgiving, excessive stress can make her fixate on small things, leading to resentment toward her husband for not helping. This breeds defensiveness, a feeling of being unappreciated despite all her efforts, and emotional outbursts. Arguments then leave both sides hurt.

How can she maintain balance while remaining gentle within the family?

The Husband’s Energy prioritizes enjoyment and light-heartedness over problem-solving. His image resembles a “mouth,” often social, cheerful, and easy to connect with. With proper growth, he can be an insightful and diplomatic person—not a bad husband. 

However, expecting him to be a strong financial provider or a source of support to lean on is unrealistic. His energy leans toward philosophy, joy, and communication. Sometimes, he might talk a big game but fail to deliver, simply because that’s the nature of his energy.

His energy is flexible but indecisive. Both husband and wife struggle with decisiveness, leading to stagnation when family issues arise. They both avoid confrontation, downplay problems, and are overly influenced by emotions. As a result, problems are never fully resolved. Both prioritize outward harmony over the core essence of family life.

The husband’s sociable energy makes him friendly and outgoing. Without discernment, though, he may attract unhelpful relationships. “When you walk with the good, you wear a monk’s robe; with the bad, you wear a paper one.” His relationships can become complicated.

Being the “mouth,” he sometimes uses clever words to avoid responsibility. This can lead to the bad habit of saying whatever it takes to gloss over issues or mask his true intentions.

It’s crucial for him to watch his words—what he says creates consequences. With growth, his words can convey wisdom and elevate his family. Without it, he risks being seen as someone who talks too much, evades issues, or even manipulates. Focusing his energy inward, choosing meaningful words, and building depth within the family is his path to improvement.